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Well, it didn't work out with the new person... There was just too much friction between her and [livejournal.com profile] luvcherbear. Faced with a decision of who to make happy, it was a no-brainer. Still, more feelings must have developed than either of us realised -- it hurt like hell when i told her, and i could tell she was hurting too. Sometimes being so empathic sucks.

Have to keep it in perspective, though, we had only gone on 3 dates. And one of the joys of poly is that i still have loved ones around me, including the most important one. Or one-and-a-half :) So, to those loved ones, Hugs & Kisses and thanks for putting up with me! :)

She stepped away from me and she moved through the fair, / And fondly I watched her move here and move there, / Then she went her way homeward with one star awake, / As the swan in the evening moves over the lake.

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Date: 2010-04-07 07:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] madamruppy.livejournal.com
Sorry it didn’t work out honey *hugs*

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Date: 2010-04-07 08:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] montuos
**HUGS** It sucks when you can't get things to work.

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Date: 2010-04-07 09:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brennaraven.livejournal.com
Sorry it didn't work, but for the sake of your most-important, there sometimes are sacrifices.
Besides, there are plenty of other wonderful people out there!
*huggles*

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Date: 2010-04-07 10:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-zrfq.livejournal.com
Still... *sigh*. **Hugs!!**

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Date: 2010-04-08 01:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cheryllm.livejournal.com
More hugs from the other Cheryl! :) :)

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Date: 2010-04-08 02:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] maziemaus.livejournal.com
There's nothing to say that makes it better but there's lots to say that both soothes the heart and bolsters the spirit. You are well loved by the moon and the stars and your brothers and sisters.

I hope that there is growth and learning that comes from this for all three of you. That makes the heartache useful, if not more bearable.

Perspective is very important. And I'll shut up now because I'm getting all maudlin and whiftyfarkle.

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Date: 2010-04-08 07:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] luvcherbear.livejournal.com
My darling Con, I am really really sorry things did not work out. I hurt when you hurt.

There have been a lot of things said, a lot of hurt on all sides. I look very forward to rebuilding trusts, reconnecting.

I am so thankful for you. I love you, Always and Forever.

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Date: 2010-04-09 02:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] juergen.livejournal.com
**HUGS**

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
Thanks *hug* :)

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
Yeah, it sucks, but i'm getting over it *hugs*

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
Besides, there are plenty of other wonderful people out there!

Was that an offer? :)
(not that i'm looking to right now, but it would sooo tweak a certain mutual acquaintance :)
*hugs*

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
Yeah... *hug*

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
:) *hugs back*

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
If there's anyone who could get away with whiftyfarkle and still be sincere, it would be you, sweetie :) *snuggles*

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
Always and Forever, my Love. *kiss*

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Date: 2010-04-09 12:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iestynapmwg.livejournal.com
*hugs back* :)

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Date: 2010-04-09 06:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] maziemaus.livejournal.com
<3 you too :)

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Date: 2010-04-12 12:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] luvcherbear.livejournal.com
Hey hey, i just realized you and Con had friended each other on here. Would you mind if I friended you likewise?

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Date: 2010-04-12 12:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brennaraven.livejournal.com
yeah, that's fine.