There's nothing to say that makes it better but there's lots to say that both soothes the heart and bolsters the spirit. You are well loved by the moon and the stars and your brothers and sisters.

I hope that there is growth and learning that comes from this for all three of you. That makes the heartache useful, if not more bearable.

Perspective is very important. And I'll shut up now because I'm getting all maudlin and whiftyfarkle.