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[iestynapmwg]

Well, it didn't work out with the new person... There was just too much friction between her and luvcherbear. Faced with a decision of who to make happy, it was a no-brainer. Still, more feelings must have developed than either of us realised -- it hurt like hell when i told her, and i could tell she was hurting too. Sometimes being so empathic sucks.

Have to keep it in perspective, though, we had only gone on 3 dates. And one of the joys of poly is that i still have loved ones around me, including the most important one. Or one-and-a-half :) So, to those loved ones, Hugs & Kisses and thanks for putting up with me! :)

She stepped away from me and she moved through the fair, / And fondly I watched her move here and move there, / Then she went her way homeward with one star awake, / As the swan in the evening moves over the lake.

Comments

[madamruppy.livejournal.com]

Sorry it didn’t work out honey *hugs*

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

Thanks *hug* :)

[montuos]

**HUGS** It sucks when you can't get things to work.

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

Yeah, it sucks, but i'm getting over it *hugs*

[brennaraven.livejournal.com]

Sorry it didn't work, but for the sake of your most-important, there sometimes are sacrifices.
Besides, there are plenty of other wonderful people out there!
*huggles*

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

Besides, there are plenty of other wonderful people out there!

Was that an offer? :)
(not that i'm looking to right now, but it would sooo tweak a certain mutual acquaintance :)
*hugs*

[luvcherbear.livejournal.com]

Hey hey, i just realized you and Con had friended each other on here. Would you mind if I friended you likewise?

[brennaraven.livejournal.com]

yeah, that's fine.

[dr-zrfq.livejournal.com]

Still... *sigh*. **Hugs!!**

[cheryllm.livejournal.com]

More hugs from the other Cheryl! :) :)

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

:) *hugs back*

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

Yeah... *hug*

[maziemaus.livejournal.com]

There's nothing to say that makes it better but there's lots to say that both soothes the heart and bolsters the spirit. You are well loved by the moon and the stars and your brothers and sisters.

I hope that there is growth and learning that comes from this for all three of you. That makes the heartache useful, if not more bearable.

Perspective is very important. And I'll shut up now because I'm getting all maudlin and whiftyfarkle.

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

If there's anyone who could get away with whiftyfarkle and still be sincere, it would be you, sweetie :) *snuggles*

[maziemaus.livejournal.com]

<3 you too :)

[luvcherbear.livejournal.com]

My darling Con, I am really really sorry things did not work out. I hurt when you hurt.

There have been a lot of things said, a lot of hurt on all sides. I look very forward to rebuilding trusts, reconnecting.

I am so thankful for you. I love you, Always and Forever.

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

Always and Forever, my Love. *kiss*

[juergen.livejournal.com]

**HUGS**

[iestynapmwg.livejournal.com]

*hugs back* :)